Weekly Chasidic Story #1183 (s5780-46/
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brother from Israel came to L.A., dressed in his best suit, and sought the addresses
his brother recommended.
1)Weekly Reading of Re'ey -- Giving to your needy fellow Jew that which
he is lacking.(Deut. 15:7-8).
2) Pirkei Avot for this week: "Don't
look at the vessel, but rather what it contains." (4:20)
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there were two brothers who were both Chabad Chassidim and both ran Torah institutions.
One lived in Israel and the other in Los Angeles.
It so happened
that the one in Israel was in desperate need of funds and, with no other option,
he called his brother and told him he was coming to try to solicit donations.
He asked him to prepare a list of potential donors in L.A. with a sentence after
each name saying what he likes or what he is like, and also to arrange a driver
to take him around.
His brother readily agreed and in a week or so the brother
from Israel was in L.A., dressed in his best suit, riding through the Jewish neighborhoods
to knock on the doors of the people on his brother's list.
At each address
the driver would escort him to the door of the home, and when the person would
answer the door the driver would return to the car.
Everything went smoothly
till they arrived at the home of Mr. Ploni., who as soon as he opened the door
and saw a Rabbi, began yelling.
"What, another parasite! Don't you
guys have anything better to do? You don't have to work? You just go around and
take money from those who do? I worked fifty years for my money--how long do you
work? Fifteen minutes? Your mother and father were probably also useless beggars
just like you. " Etc. etc.
The driver began pulling at the Rabbi's
jacket to urge him to return to the car and leave, but surprisingly, the Rabbi
didn't seem to be upset by the curses. Exactly the opposite, in fact. He calmly
motioned for the driver to return to the car and wait.
After some ten minutes
of cursing, Mr. Ploni. was worn out. He paused for a few seconds, asked the Rabbi
what he wanted, and as the Rabbi began explaining, invited him into his home.
minutes later the Rabbi exited Mr. Ploni.'s home, returned to the car and told
the driver to proceed to the next place.
The driver was in awe. "Rabbi,
you didn't lose your temper at all! Why, I myself wanted to punch him. Rabbi,
now I know you are a holy man! Now, tell me please, did he give you any money?"
G-d," The Rabbi answered, "he gave me this check for one thousand dollars".
The driver's eyes widened in amazement.
"But," continued the
visitor from Israel, "I'm no holy man. Let me explain why I acted as I did.
Just have a look at this."
The Rabbi held out the list his brother
had given him and said. "Read what my brother wrote after Mr. Ploni.'s name."
driver took the list and read aloud. "Mr. Ploni.: he will yell at you for
ten minutes; then give you a thousand dollars."
Rabbi Bolton's conclusion:
Don't pay attention to the envelope, but rather to the message it contains.
Source: Adapted by Yerachmiel Tilles from
the rendition of his friend and colleague Rabbi Tuvia Bolton, who heard
it from the uber chasid Rabbi Naftali Estulin of Los Angeles.
1)Weekly Reading of Re'ey: "If there will be among you a needy person,
from one of your brothers in one of your cities, in your land the Lord, your God,
is giving you, you shall not harden your heart, and you shall not close your hand
from your needy brother. Rather, you shall open your hand to him, and you shall
lend him sufficient for his needs, which he is lacking." (Deut. 15:7-8)
would seem from this story though that it is acceptable to harden your heart as
long as at the end you unharden it and you give! - YT]
Pirkei Avot for this Shabbat: "Don't look at the vessel, but rather
what it contains." (4:20)
Tilles is co-founder and associate director of Ascent-of-Safed, and chief editor
of this website (and of KabbalaOnline.org). He has hundreds of published stories
to his credit, and many have been translated into other languages. He tells them
live at Ascent nearly every Saturday night.
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